Every endeavour goes through similar processes to eventually arrive
at meditation experiences.
If, for example, we want to become a pianist, we first have to train the
body and the mind to have the correct finger technique etc. For a footballer,
the right kicking style; for a rock-climber, the right moves; so we concentrate
past the superficial to the analytical mind and learn and practice as efficiently
as possible.
As we progress in each endeavour there are moments
where our consciousness is transported past the analytical to the intuitive
or higher mind or what we may call the heart. Examples of these intuitive
or ‘meditative’ moments are typically where a team works as one, a runner
experiences the ‘runner’s high’, a bushwalker ceases to be an observer and
merges into the feeling of the forest and becomes a participant, a sports
person hits a ‘zone’. As we know already these moments are usually;
What lies behind us and what lies before us
are tiny matters compared to what lies within us.
- Oliver Wendell Holmes
Fulfilling - they are the reason we spend hours at our endeavours so we can get a few moments of ‘meditation’.
The seven keys to meditation
1. Find a special place Set aside a special place that
is used only for meditation. If you have a spare room, great, but it’s
fine to set aside a corner of your bedroom. This will be your sacred
space for self-discovery, so you’ll want to make it as inspiring as
possible.
You might like to:
· Cover a low table with a
clean, light cloth
· Place a candle on a table, and a vase with
fresh flowers if possible.
· You may also want to light some incense.
Together, these items will help create a meditative atmosphere.
2. Prepare Physically Your spiritual journey takes
place in and through your physical body. Here’s how you can help prepare
it for meditation:
· Take a shower before meditating. If it isn't
possible to take a shower, wash your face and hands.
· Wear clean,
light, loose fitting clothes.
· Take your shoes off before meditating.
Your feet deserve a break too!
3. Sit Relaxed, Sit Straight There’s no need to sit in a special yogic posture to meditate. If you can sit comfortably on a cushion on the floor, this is best. Otherwise a meditation stool or chair is fine. The important thing is to be still and relaxed, to have your back erect, and to have the flower and candle close to eye level. People often ask if it’s okay to meditate while lying down. We don’t recommend it; the most likely outcome is you’ll fall asleep. Always remember to begin your meditation with six or seven ‘power-breaths’ – long, slow deep breaths that release the myriad of thoughts and focus your attention within.
4. Slow and Steady Wins the Race In the beginning, five minutes of meditation a day is enough. Meditation is like an inner muscle that you are slowly but surely making stronger. If you overwork a muscle, it becomes sore; if you meditate for more than five minutes and feel tension in your head or get a headache, you know you’ve gone beyond your capacity. Try not to be concerned with expectations of what your meditation is going to do for you or what your meditation experience ‘should’ be. Just steadily, soulfully and sincerely practice and make yourself alert to the messages that will begin to arise from within
If by giving up small pleasures, great happiness is to be found, the wise should give up small pleasures, seeing the prospect of great happiness - THE BUDDHA.
5. Choose the right time Make an appointment with yourself and practice at the same time each day. Just as you feed your physical body several times a day at certain times, meditation nourishes your inner life so set at least one special time each day for your meditation exercises. The best time to meditate is early in the morning, before you enter into your daily activities. This way, the peace you get from your meditation will permeate the rest of your day.
6. The Power of Music Music is often referred to as the language of the soul. Peaceful music of the heart will create a meditative atmosphere and tremendously enhance the quality of your meditation. Play it softly during your exercises; merely listening to and absorbing the music will help you to feel the deep inner stillness of meditation
7. YOU! In the end, the most important ingredient in this whole process is you. It is you, who experiences, you, who is discovered, you, who is the student, you, who is the real teacher and you, finally, who is revealed.